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homophobia, the 4 noble truths, and the 8-fold path

May 17th, 2009 · 8 Comments

if you’re new here, you may want to subscribe to my RSS feed. thanks for visiting!today, on the international day against homophobia and transpobia, i’d like to gather a few thoughts on homophobia in view of the four noble truths, the core ideas of buddhism.

there is suffering - giving birth, aging, illness, etc. […]

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best of carnival of eating disorders

January 31st, 2009 · 4 Comments

welcome to the 24th edition of the carnival of eating disorders! blog carnival has been really problematic for the last few months. so instead of struggling with the blog carnival site, i just went back and looked at some posts from the past that i really enjoyed. here they are:
a poem
for the […]

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Tags: blogs of note · eating disorders, body image & similar topics · interesting books · psychological research and other things academic · queer talk, gender issues and sexual identity · spirituality

2 years of carnival of eating disorders!

December 31st, 2008 · 2 Comments

welcome to two years of the carnival of eating disorders!
yes, it’s been two years as of today. here’s how it all started:
if you’re not familiar with blog carnivals, you may think this is an odd name – this link here will tell you more about blog carnivals. this carnival contains articles […]

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Tags: addictions · blogs of note · eating disorders, body image & similar topics · interesting books · queer talk, gender issues and sexual identity

anorexia in men

July 13th, 2008 · 9 Comments

male anorexia is a topic that is not talked or written about very much. anorexia in men is reminiscent of males with a history of sexual abuse, another topic that is underdiscussed, underreported and undertreated. perhaps one thing that they both have in common is a perception of weakness (a very real problem in […]

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Tags: depression and mental illness · eating disorders, body image & similar topics · psychological research and other things academic · queer talk, gender issues and sexual identity

bullying stops here!

February 27th, 2008 · 13 Comments

today is international stand up to bullying day.  students and lots of other people all across canada and the world wear pink to mark the day.

last year, two students in nova scotia (canada’s east coast) donned and distributed pink shirts after a classmate fell victim to homophobic bullying for wearing pink to school.
this became […]

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Tags: emotional health · news and events · peace, environment, social justice et al · queer talk, gender issues and sexual identity

6 kinds of love

February 13th, 2008 · 11 Comments

valentine’s day tomorrow. let’s talk about love.
but what kind of love?
we’re all familiar with eros – the heady, emotional high of romance, sexual love and infatuation. it makes the world go round; or, more specifically, it twirls the world in a spin.
agape (pron. ah-gah-pay) is another type of love people often talk about. […]

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Tags: interesting books · philosophy and education · queer talk, gender issues and sexual identity

identity guilt and oppression

January 4th, 2008 · 6 Comments

i just spent a little time reading through joyce trebilcot’s dyke ideas, a “passionate and insightful contribution to lesbian philosophy.”
seeing that a little while ago we had an interesting discussion on guilt here on this blog, her thoughts on “identity guilt” and “official guilt” were particularly interesting.
what i here call identity guilt is implied by […]

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Tags: emotional health · interesting books · philosophy and education · queer talk, gender issues and sexual identity

cultural aspects of mental health

October 13th, 2007 · 2 Comments

today you can find me over at GNIF brain blogger. october 10 was world mental health day. it focused on cultural aspects of mental health. you’ll find tidbits about the mental health among the black and latino GLBT community; mental health in india, including an interesting link to the diary of a mother […]

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Tags: depression and mental illness · psychological research and other things academic · queer talk, gender issues and sexual identity

rant: anglican qualifiers

June 27th, 2007 · 2 Comments

“may i ask what age group you fall into? ok, thanks. do you work for a marketing company? no? good. and your household income? thank you. last question, what postal code do you live in? oh, V5W? i’m sorry, we already have the quota for people with […]

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homophobia

May 17th, 2007 · No Comments

today is national day against homophobia.
homophobia is about us over here versus them over there. look, these other people! they do X and say Y, and we don’t do and say that, so they’re outside of the fence and we’re inside.
only there is no them. there is only we. and the […]

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self-righteous in surrey

May 14th, 2007 · 4 Comments

“if teachers are going to use the film an inconvenient truth in the classroom, they should also have access to another documentary which challenges the academy-award winning movie’s premise, says a local school trustee.”
this, my friends, we can find under the heading “school trustee demands ‘balance’ over gore movie use”.
right.
let me get this off my […]

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transgender and mental illness: double stigma

May 9th, 2007 · 3 Comments

kai wright at temenos writes:
our culture depicts people whose discomfort with gender norms goes beyond being tomboys or feminine men as mere curiosity items for trash TV (”your woman is really a man!” episodes of jerry springer). this collective ignorance leaves transgendered people without much guidance. many go through puberty and into adulthood without meeting […]

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Tags: depression and mental illness · queer talk, gender issues and sexual identity

stumbling upon treasures

April 5th, 2007 · 1 Comment

a few weeks ago, thanks indirectly to scott, with whom we’ve had this interesting theological conversation in the last entry, i came across – stumbled upon – stumbleupon, a great social bookmarking site. i have found a plethora of truly interesting sites through it, and thought that from time to time i’d like to […]

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malesque: (non)categorizing gender

March 20th, 2007 · No Comments

this is another post by alex green, my lovely young assistant. it’s great to work with people whose minds are fresh and agile! here, alex picks up the thread from the post on international women’s day, where the term “male-esque” made an appearance.
what does “male-esque” mean?
to define male-esque is going against

addthis_url […]

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an 18-year-old talks about international women’s day

March 8th, 2007 · 7 Comments

hello, i’m isabella’s personal assistant. i’m an eighteen-year-old who has very strong views on the treatment and consideration of people in general. when isabella asked me to write something about international women’s day i was very intrigued and excited to be featured.
cat’s lab tells us that
celebrated on 8 march, international women’s day (IWD) is […]

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