change therapy

this morning i woke up, as usual, to a number of new comments on this blog. here are two, both from the same commenter:
on my post, 14 ways to quit smoking:
i am a big smoker. i tried to quit lots of times, but never succeeded. the biggest problem is that i am not even [...]

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the last two frozen pea friday entries were a bit more introspective and heavy. today’s post is heavy, too, but only on science. i wanted to see what solutions health psychologists are looking at in terms of frequently occurring problems for cancer patients,e.g. how to talk about cancer, how cancer impacts family life, [...]

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in his latest post on creating a way out of depression, john offers these words:
creative work communicates with others, and that connecting is a critical piece. it’s the opposite of the isolating impact of depression. for me, the human connection through creative work is life-giving.
so i’m realizing that i probably started this series with the [...]

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last week i asked out loud, why is it that i keep writing about cancer?
when i don’t understand something, i sometimes write a poem or two. then i let it sit, and some time afterwards, it’s possible that the world makes a little more sense to me.
so i wrote these three little [...]

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getting my tattoo was the culmination of a three year dance with breast cancer. the tattoo changed my mastectomy scar into my shield – pam huntley
a friend of mine is considering getting a tattoo after her mastectomy. ah, i thought, that’ll be a fun entry! let’s have a few pretty, colourful pictures of [...]

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it’s friday and we have a frozen pea friday post to celebrate cancer survivors. today, a guest post by hayley:
hi! i’m hayley and i’m an alcoholic. oh wait, wrong posting day. this is the cancer posting day. let’s try that again!
hi! i’m hayley townley. i’m thrilled to have been asked to be a guest [...]

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this is my first peopleized interview. peopleized is a site where you can find people to interview, offer yourself for interviews, and post interviews, which are then available for anyone to use. neat concept. [update on september 2009: that site doesn't seem to alive anymore]
it’s friday, so of course this is a frozen [...]

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for today’s weekly frozen pea breast cancer post, i was wondering what some of the buddhists on the net say about cancer and came across reverend mugo from jade mountains. this blog is “an expression of gratitude to all those who read, leave comments and provide support by offering dana, friendship, hospitality, guidance, and [...]

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in last week’s frozen pea friday post – the weekly post about people dealing with cancer, inspired by susan reynolds and my friends who are dealing with cancer – we alluded to the difficulty of paying for the necessary care needed for people living with cancer. this immediately led me to thinking about the [...]

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for this week’s frozen pea friday post – a post for and about cancer survivors, following the frozen pea friday movement – i’d like to point you to an interesting project by ms. frozen pea friday herself, susan reynolds.
susan is an artist, a mother, grandmother, prominent second life citizen, social media maven. and she has [...]

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for today’s “frozen pea friday” post on cancer, and because it’s national mental health week, i’ve interviewed someone on how she deals with the emotional effects of cancer. here’s what she says:

i have 100% permission to have all the meltdowns i need to have (i.e. anger, crying spells)
have a relationship with a psychotherapist [...]

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today friday, as usual, a post having to do with cancer. to finish off april, the poetry month, i’ll serve up three poems.

the first one is one i wrote shortly before my friend nikaiah jaguar left us.
nikaiah
butterfly woman
your bones are so thin the moon shines through
some say
the moths are eating you
but we know
you [...]

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it’s friday, and frozen pea post time – my weekly post on cancer. today, i’ve put together a guest post about psychological research regarding breast cancer over at GNIF brain blogger. you won’t be surprised to hear that social support contributes to higher survival rates.
two observations are more counter-intuitive, though: it is unclear [...]

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today is frozen pea friday, and as usual, i’m writing about cancer.
a friend of mine who just underwent a mastectomy and will most likely get the recommendation to take tamoxifen in the near future was asking some of her friends to do a bit of research for her (remember, sifting through tons of information can [...]

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for a few weeks now, either here or on another blog, every friday i post something about cancer. as those of you who stop by here frequently, this is something started by susan reynolds and the people around her. in december, susan reynolds was diagnosed with breast cancer. now she’s become an [...]

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