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february buddhist carnival - on mental health (part 2)

February 15th, 2009 · 5 Comments

if you’re new here, you may want to subscribe to my RSS feed. thanks for visiting!this is part 2 of this month’s buddhist carnival. part 1 is here.
the wild mind and the wise body
i like this article by the wild moods that takes the actual here-and-now feelings and sensations of mental illness and […]

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Tags: 12 step discussion · addictions · blogs of note · depression and mental illness · eating disorders, body image & similar topics · spirituality

a 12-step buddhist talks about anger and george bush

January 20th, 2009 · 11 Comments

a guest post by the 12-step buddhist:
how do you feel now that barack is official? i’m still in shock. waiting for a big news release about some kick ass exec orders reversing idiocracy. one of the big questions for me is how to practice buddhism and the principles of 12-step recovery around politics. on […]

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blogathon: 6 questions about change - twelve-step’s step 6

July 26th, 2008 · 2 Comments

i haven’t done an entry on the twelve steps for a while. the last one was on step five. the idea of discussing the 12 steps here is to look at how they can help anyone, not only people who go to groups like alcoholics anonymous, overeaters anonymous or alanon (for people with […]

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more on the 12 steps: step 5

June 8th, 2008 · 6 Comments

it’s been almost a year that i last discussed a step from the 12-step programs a la AA. thankfully, someone made a comment on another 12-step post, and that spurred me on to another post.
while the 12 steps were originally intended to help alcoholics and addicts, they have proven to be a fine blueprint for […]

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recovering from addiction: a prayer

March 25th, 2008 · 10 Comments

a prayer by someone dealing with addiction:

dear higher powers:
thank you for another day of life.
help me to walk closely with you today.
work through me so that i may better help others.
help me when i am weak. help me to reach out to your unending strength.
help me to remain hopeful and inspired.
help me to be humble […]

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the 12 steps, buddhist fashion

June 20th, 2007 · 6 Comments

one of my twitter friends, ben, has been alerting me to all kinds of interesting links lately. through him i found this here, the 12 steps of liberation, a recovery program from a buddhist view. it’s brought to us by the universal compassion centre.
the 12 steps of liberation
1. the truth of suffering. we […]

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would you like to free yourself of your past?

May 2nd, 2007 · 5 Comments

here we have another instalment of our discussion of the twelve steps of alcoholics anonymous and other similar groups. unlike the other three steps we discussed, steps 4 and 5 are two steps that can very easily be taken out of the 12-step framework and applied in everyone’s life.
the purpose of these steps is […]

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more on step 3: a bit of a theological discussion

April 4th, 2007 · 8 Comments

this post is in response to scott’s comment on my article on step 3, part of my 12-step discussion.
scott’s last line was, “thoughts”?
oh, scott, i’ll always have thoughts – probably too many of them
first of all, thanks, scott, for your kind words regarding my attempt to make step three palatable to people who […]

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Tags: 12 step discussion · philosophy and education · spirituality

12-step discussion: step 3

April 2nd, 2007 · 3 Comments

this is the third installation of a series of discussion about the 12 steps as conceived in various programs of recovery, from alcoholics anonymous to adult children of alcoholics, from debtors anonymous to naranon.
today i’ll present you with a meditation on step 3:
made a decision to turn our will and our lives over to the […]

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12-step discussion: step 2

February 27th, 2007 · 2 Comments

today i’m on the run. too many things happening, including helping my very pregnant daughter move (yes! i’m becoming a grandmother! more on that soon.)
so let’s turn this problem into an opportunity and see how you, gentle reader, like it when i just present you with my notes.
it’s a continuation from last […]

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the first step

January 30th, 2007 · 5 Comments

i’ve been interested in the 12 steps for almost as long as i’ve been a counsellor – 15 years now. what first attracted me to them was their fierce commitment to honesty and being real, to be humble, and to follow an ethical and spiritual way of life.
the 12 steps came originally from alcoholics […]

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