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	<title>Comments on: acceptance, is, ought, and baby food</title>
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		<title>By: Evan</title>
		<link>http://www.moritherapy.org/article/acceptance-is-ought-and-baby-food/comment-page-1/#comment-671318</link>
		<dc:creator>Evan</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 22 Oct 2009 00:10:30 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hi Isabella, I&#039;m in total agreement with the Baby Food approach.  Small and easy steps are usually the quickest.  

It also means that people are feeling better and better about the change (rather than having to steal themselves to do it every time - which teaches that change is unpleasant).

I believe that  this is the approach we ought to use most times (at least to start with).
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		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi Isabella, I&#8217;m in total agreement with the Baby Food approach.  Small and easy steps are usually the quickest.  </p>
<p>It also means that people are feeling better and better about the change (rather than having to steal themselves to do it every time &#8211; which teaches that change is unpleasant).</p>
<p>I believe that  this is the approach we ought to use most times (at least to start with).<br />
<span class="cluv"> Evan&#180;s last blog ..<a href="http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/Wellbeingandhealthnet/~3/qgkc0ZpoyMI/" rel="nofollow">Can we talk about our spiritual experience?</a> <span class="heart_tip_box"><img class="heart_tip" alt="My ComLuv Profile" border="0" width="16" height="14" src="http://moritherapy.org/wp-content/plugins/commentluv/images/littleheart.gif"/></span></span></p>
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		<title>By: Thomas</title>
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		<dc:creator>Thomas</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 21 Oct 2009 18:41:57 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I totally agree to that. Try to overcome the own fear with little steps and there is waiting a big reward.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I totally agree to that. Try to overcome the own fear with little steps and there is waiting a big reward.</p>
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		<title>By: Andrew</title>
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		<dc:creator>Andrew</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 21 Oct 2009 11:05:16 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Isabella,

I think that I could probably apply the &#039;one baby step&#039; formula to one particular area of my life which has been greatly neglected over the past decade or so - relations with the opposite sex. 

Perhaps a large part of the reason why I haven&#039;t done anything about this area is because the whole thing appears to be a bit overwhelming, and maybe I need to relax a little and simply meet more new young ladies. Simply saying &#039;hello&#039; to a few more young ladies does not seem all that terribly hard - it&#039;s not like a marriage proposal or anything.
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		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Isabella,</p>
<p>I think that I could probably apply the &#8216;one baby step&#8217; formula to one particular area of my life which has been greatly neglected over the past decade or so &#8211; relations with the opposite sex. </p>
<p>Perhaps a large part of the reason why I haven&#8217;t done anything about this area is because the whole thing appears to be a bit overwhelming, and maybe I need to relax a little and simply meet more new young ladies. Simply saying &#8216;hello&#8217; to a few more young ladies does not seem all that terribly hard &#8211; it&#8217;s not like a marriage proposal or anything.<br />
<span class="cluv"> Andrew&#180;s last blog ..<a href="http://www.goodhonestdollar.com/should-models-be-sacked-for-being-too-fat" rel="nofollow">Should models be sacked for being ‘too fat’</a> <span class="heart_tip_box"><img class="heart_tip" alt="My ComLuv Profile" border="0" width="16" height="14" src="http://moritherapy.org/wp-content/plugins/commentluv/images/littleheart.gif"/></span></span></p>
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		<title>By: sandyphd</title>
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		<dc:creator>sandyphd</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 20 Oct 2009 02:54:58 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Replacing the shoulds and the oughts with &quot;want to&quot; and &quot;will&quot; is so empowering.  It&#039;s almost magical, at times, the way it transforms.  Great post.
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		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Replacing the shoulds and the oughts with &#8220;want to&#8221; and &#8220;will&#8221; is so empowering.  It&#8217;s almost magical, at times, the way it transforms.  Great post.<br />
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		<title>By: Kathy Berman</title>
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		<dc:creator>Kathy Berman</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 19 Oct 2009 12:50:44 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I love your blog. I have been blogging about my recovery for 5 years. My recovery date is 11/24/76 and I am a former counselor. I think that your  baby food approach is better than what I have used for years. The first stage that I try to help people through is understanding that their brain is to  get them. I teach what I call the &quot;observer self&quot;. But I am going to start using baby food. Thanks, Kathy &lt;a href=&quot;http://kathyberman.com&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;kathyberman.com&lt;/a&gt;.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I love your blog. I have been blogging about my recovery for 5 years. My recovery date is 11/24/76 and I am a former counselor. I think that your  baby food approach is better than what I have used for years. The first stage that I try to help people through is understanding that their brain is to  get them. I teach what I call the &#8220;observer self&#8221;. But I am going to start using baby food. Thanks, Kathy <a href="http://kathyberman.com" rel="nofollow">kathyberman.com</a>.</p>
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