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the intensive journal process

July 31st, 2008 · 6 Comments

if you’re new here, you may want to subscribe to my RSS feed. thanks for visiting!i haven’t written anything about journaling for a while, so i was very pleased when i got an offer to write a paid review for the progoff intensive journal® program. it was a particularly nice surprise because i […]

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Tags: creativity: poetry, art, etc. · emotional health

carnival of eating disorders - july 2008

July 31st, 2008 · No Comments

welcome to the july 31, 2008 edition of carnival of eating disorders!
i’m doing something today that i’ve never done before: i’m using the “predigested” version put together by the blog carnival.  normally i put a lot of care and effort into my blog carnivals but i have to confess that i’m still […]

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Tags: blogs of note · eating disorders, body image & similar topics · happiness

i’m more evil than john chow!

July 30th, 2008 · 5 Comments

i’m more evil than john chow!
people say john chow is evil (if you don’t know him: he’s one of the first bloggers who wasn’t ashamed to make lots of money online). now we know the truth: i’m way more evil than john chow!
you see, there is a test now – very scientific and mathematically […]

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Tags: general

black woman has seen the world

July 30th, 2008 · 3 Comments

this strong image is copyright of photographer loic brohard

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Tags: wordless wednesday

cults

July 29th, 2008 · 3 Comments

during the blogathon, one of the entries was about about a woman leaving a cult. coincidentally, just a few days later, one of my stumbleupon friends pointed me to steven hassan’s work. interestingly enough, this also led me to another article relevant to a blogathon post about guru shopping.
from what i’ve seen so […]

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Tags: spirituality · therapy

blogathon: blogging for the canadian mental health association

July 27th, 2008 · 7 Comments

bill* started participating with CMHA’s recreation program in 1999. his first event was a four-day camping trip with four staff and twenty-three other participants who he had never met before. bill made an instant impression though - he wore a big black cowboy hat and bermuda shorts, and displayed a genuine appreciation for the […]

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Tags: blogs of note · depression and mental illness · peace, environment, social justice et al

blogathon: therapy, and then … ? a short story

July 27th, 2008 · 4 Comments

this is an entry for my participation in the 2008 blogathon, a 24-hour marathon of blogging. please support the cause and donate – however much, however little – to the canadian mental health association (vancouver/burnaby branch). to donate, email me or use this URL: www.canadahelps.org/CharityProfilePage.aspx?CharityID=d2252. you should be able to get there by […]

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Tags: creativity: poetry, art, etc. · therapy

blogathon: compassionate curiosity, knowledge and objectification

July 27th, 2008 · 5 Comments

posed in a tone of compassionate curiosity, “why?” is transformed from rigid accusation to an open-minded, even scientific question. instead of hurling an accusatory brick at your own head (e.g., “i’m so stupid, when will i ever learn,” etc.), the question “why did i do this again, knowing full well the consequences?” can become […]

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Tags: addictions · interesting books · philosophy and education · therapy

blogathon: post #1000!

July 27th, 2008 · 1 Comment

this post marks ID#1000 on my site. dear web site, let me take this opportunity to thank you.

you’ve taught me so much! i don’t even know where to begin. just today i learned about a new quirk in wordpress. (if you post lots of posts, some entries can accidentally get stuck […]

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Tags: the net

blogathon: a walk through vancouver’s memorial park

July 27th, 2008 · No Comments

this morning – or i guess by now it’s yesterday morning – i went for a walk, to clear my head. i really like my neighbourhood. i live right by memorial park, a good old south vancouver barrio. walking down our wide, quiet, sunny street, i found our filipino neighbours at the […]

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Tags: general

blogathon: my ideal writing weekend, part 4

July 27th, 2008 · 5 Comments

oh boy, i thought i was going to write much more here in my report on my ideal writing weekend, but i was just so absorbed in what happened that i never got around to it. so this will be my last entry. it’s monday evening, and we’ve had an abso-friggin-lutely unforgettable 3 […]

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Tags: creativity: poetry, art, etc.

blogathon: wise words

July 27th, 2008 · 3 Comments

this is an entry for my participation in the 2008 blogathon, a 24-hour marathon of blogging. please support the cause and donate – however much, however little – to the canadian mental health association (vancouver/burnaby branch). to donate, email me or use this URL: www.canadahelps.org/CharityProfilePage.aspx?CharityID=d2252. you should be able to get there by […]

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Tags: emotional health

blogathon: about the church, again

July 27th, 2008 · 5 Comments

this is an interview with m. a bit more serious. you just never know.
i: now i will interview you, m.
m: now i’m in trouble!
i: (looks at m)
m: what are you interviewing me about?
j: men.
m: men? oh, heavens!
g: religion! there’s a good one!
i: what shall it be? men or religion?
m: religious […]

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Tags: spirituality

blogathon: isabella’s amazing interview powers

July 27th, 2008 · 1 Comment

my friends J and M just came over (at 12:00 at night!) to keep me company as i brave the last few hours of the blogathon. so we did two interviews. here is the first one. i’m “i”. please observe my stellar interview skills.
i: what should i interview you about?
j: fun!
i: […]

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Tags: general

blogathon: psychology on stumbleupon

July 27th, 2008 · 1 Comment

this is an entry for my participation in the 2008 blogathon, a 24-hour marathon of blogging. please support the cause and donate – however much, however little – to the canadian mental health association (vancouver/burnaby branch). to donate, email me or use this URL: www.canadahelps.org/CharityProfilePage.aspx?CharityID=d2252. you should be able to get there by […]

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Tags: psychological research and other things academic