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carnival of eating disorders #6

May 31st, 2007 · 5 Comments

if you’re new here, you may want to subscribe to my RSS feed. thanks for visiting!welcome to this month’s edition of carnival of eating disorders! let’s jump right into it:
at k-l masina, kara-leah wrote a post, mission: physical manifestation overhaul - intro where she and jeff lilly embark on a collaborative blog series […]

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Tags: addictions · blogs of note · eating disorders, body image & similar topics · interesting books

eric maisel’s book tour: focus for artists

May 30th, 2007 · 6 Comments

today i am one of the stops on eric maisel’s blog tour about his book ten zen seconds, the next step in mindfulness practice. on this book tour, author and creativity coach eric maisal has discussed a wide variety of topics relating to creative work, from writing to fashion design to song writing as […]

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Tags: addictions · blogs of note · creativity: poetry, art, etc. · emotional health · interesting books

giving up, effort, and trust

May 28th, 2007 · 4 Comments

“i still often find myself at a loss for inspiration. i never give up though. on those days that i am discouraged and unmotivated, i try and get away from the daily routine. i put aside the lessons i had planned (as much as is possible to stay within my responsibilities) and i focus on […]

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Tags: blogs of note · depression and mental illness · emotional health

gardening a good life: 8 shovelfuls of ideas

May 27th, 2007 · 1 Comment

thanks, reikiblogger, for including my post relax in saturday’s carnival of healing. among the other carnival participants, i really resonated with debra moorhead’s what gardening has taught me about life.
she finds “gardening to be as good as meditation, but more delicious!” yes! whenever i’m at my wit’s end, i can always go into the […]

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Tags: blogs of note · emotional health

dismantling an eating disorder: a therapist’s view

May 25th, 2007 · 2 Comments

a little while i promised i would go into a bit more detail about some of the submissions to last month’s carnival of eating disorders. here is an article by msempower, entitled how to dismantle an eating disorder.
i’ve lived much of my life in search of a cure for my eating disorder. i’ve ventured […]

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Tags: eating disorders, body image & similar topics · therapy

a to do list

May 24th, 2007 · No Comments

always looking for new ways to think about goals and to do lists. what do you think of this one? it came to me thanks to carol, one of our vancouver bloggers meetup members.

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Tags: general

the roots of inspiration

May 23rd, 2007 · 17 Comments

vivien, who i know through my favourite women’s networking group, SWAN, is hosting a group writing project around the theme of inspiration. after having participated in aaron potts’ fabulous group writing project on the theme of success, i am all fired up to talk about this one, too! (and it’s interesting that this […]

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Tags: blogs of note · creativity: poetry, art, etc. · philosophy and education

jack walks down the street

May 22nd, 2007 · 8 Comments

jack walks down the street, whistling to himself. he turns left. there is a sign somewhere. he walks further down that street. he makes another turn, to the right. there is another sign, “dead end street”. whistle, whistle, whistle. he keeps on walking. another sign that proclaims, “this […]

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Tags: emotional health

success, success, success: steve pavlina, move over!

May 20th, 2007 · 3 Comments

a little while ago, i participated in a blog meme initiated by aaron potts, to which i had been invited by cardin at optimistlab. i posted my contribution (success in a basket) and thought that was that.
what a great surprise to see that aaron has taken the infinite trouble of tracking down everyone who […]

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Tags: blogs of note · emotional health

carnival of healing - may 19, 2007

May 19th, 2007 · 10 Comments

welcome to this week’s carnival of healing! thank you, phylameana, for doing such a marvellous job at making this carnival happen every week. i’ve had some really good things come my way through it, so the healing works!
okay, let’s see what’s on the menu today:
i love this picture posted by hueina […]

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Tags: blogs of note · emotional health · spirituality

relax

May 18th, 2007 · 4 Comments

inspired by last night’s meditation meetup and the relaxation swicki, i thought i’d offer you these words.
sit comfortably, without slouching.
you may want to close your eyes.
notice your breath. in comes in - it goes out. it comes in - it goes out. there is nothing you need to do - yet it […]

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Tags: emotional health

homophobia

May 17th, 2007 · No Comments

today is national day against homophobia.
homophobia is about us over here versus them over there. look, these other people! they do X and say Y, and we don’t do and say that, so they’re outside of the fence and we’re inside.
only there is no them. there is only we. and the […]

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Tags: queer talk, gender issues and sexual identity

turn it off

May 16th, 2007 · 9 Comments

i just walked through the house to see if there is any electricity-sucking widget, gadget, or doodah that doesn’t need to be turned on.
says bc hydro: “on wednesday, may 16, 2007, british columbians are encouraged to turn off and unplug all unnecessary lights, fixtures, appliances and vehicles.” so i did.
the worst is the family […]

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Tags: addictions · emotional health · peace, environment, social justice et al · the net

self-righteous in surrey

May 14th, 2007 · 4 Comments

“if teachers are going to use the film an inconvenient truth in the classroom, they should also have access to another documentary which challenges the academy-award winning movie’s premise, says a local school trustee.”
this, my friends, we can find under the heading “school trustee demands ‘balance’ over gore movie use”.
right.
let me get this off my […]

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Tags: blogs of note · peace, environment, social justice et al · queer talk, gender issues and sexual identity

mothers’ day prayers

May 12th, 2007 · 1 Comment

tonight, the night before mothers’ day, i want to rest in a place where women live. i have taken my little book of prayers and rewritten some of my favourite prayers just a tad, to reflect the womanly aspect of the divine:
deep peace of the running wave to you,
deep peace of the flowing air […]

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Tags: interesting books · spirituality